Unwritten rules for poker games

There are some rules for poker games you have to know before you start playing live poker and you probably wont find them in a rule book. These are the unwritten rules of poker etiquette.
Obviously the home poker game is not played at a flashy Las Vegas casino and the stakes are not in the thousands of dollars but there are number of good poker manners that should be considered to ensure a good fair game is enjoyed by all.
Here are some unwritten rules for poker games to consider:
1. No Cheating or collusionMost people would think this goes with out mention, but I have witnessed this occurring on many occasions in so called “friendly” games.
This goes to the heart of the unwritten rules for poker games.
Why would you want to cheat your mates? Why turn a friendly game unfriendly?
2. Playing extra slowlyThis isn’t usually a problem in home poker games, but I have seen a player’s unusually long decision making result in a near fight (at a poker league match).
If you need some time for a decision then simply announce “time” and the other players will be more understanding.
3. No string-bettingThis is when you bet a couple of poker chips at a time.
A common mistake by poker players and usually forgivable, but it has been used intentionally by the odd tricky player to unfairly gain information.
If you are going to raise, then announce “raise” and either state the amount or place the chips out in one hand movement.
4. Deliberately acting out of turnA sin we are all accidentally guilty of from time to time.
If you do act out of turn apologize and accept the penalty without question. Doing this deliberately to show another player your intentions is a form of cheating….see rule number 1.
5. Inducing an “act out of turn”This is attempting to make a player act out of turn by hiding your cards or faking betting movements.
I have witnessed a player reach out their arm to bet then pull their hand away just before the chip are to touch the felt resulting in then next player betting out of turn….. Not good form.
6. Making comments during a hand you are not inThese are often known rules for poker games in casinos, but not usually enforced at home games due to the friendly atmosphere
As a general rule, do not talk about a person’s potential holdings if you are not in the hand.
If you think someone is bluffing keep it to yourself. Wait until then hand is over before discussing a player’s cards out loud.
7. Showing your cards to another player that is not in the hand and getting adviceThis is a common occurrence in home games but is not fair on the other players in the hand.
You should make your own decisions in a poker game. I have been on the receiving end of cheating between two players when showing each other their hands for “advice”. If I wanted to play two vs one I would play piggy in the middle and not poker.
8. The dealer must not look at “mucked cards”If you are dealing, never look at any cards mucked face down, it is none of your business. Having a look is giving you information about players that the others aren’t getting.
You are simply dealing the cards, no exceptions!
I see this happening too much at home games. Even if the dealer is not playing in the game they should still respect the mucked cards.
9. Splashing the potI am probably guilty of this a little too often. But don’t follow my bad example, place your chips neatly.
10. Agreeing to check a hand out when a third player is all-in.It is sometimes considered bad etiquette to bet in this situation, but you can’t discuss this kind of thing in the middle of a hand- See rule number 1. No collusion!
11. Hiding your big chipsAnother of the rules for poker games that might be written in some casinos. Make sure you bigger denomination chips are in clear view of all players as not to conceal the size of your stack.
You are allowed to ask for a rough chip count of any player if you feel you can’t see their chips.
12. If you folded and your cards would have made a great hand on the flop, don't reactThis is not fair to the remaining players in the hand. I have even seen the pros do this on occasion (Shaun Shakan at the 2005 WSOP while Mike Mattasow was in a hand).
Tell the story afterwards.
13. Show one show allIf you feel the need to show a player your cards after the hand, then show the rest of the table too.
14. Don’t remove chips from the table: “going south”This is a form of cheating, see rule number 1. Every player must have the chance to win back money he or she has lost.
If you want to protect your winnings, then technically you have to leave the game.
See rule 15 for more rules for poker games on this subject.
15. Leaving early when you are upParticularly in home poker games, don’t go home early on purpose because you are winning, it is polite to stay until the end of the game if you are a big winner.
I recommend you let people know when you are likely to leave early on in the night e.g. telling your buddies at eight PM that you will be leaving around midnight.
If you are going to cut that short for some reason, give fair warning, like “I’m heading off in 45 minutes guys”
16. Paying attentionDo not fall into the trap of being that annoying player than needs to be told it is their turn to act every hand. If you have better things to do than play poker, then go do them.
17. Don’t be excessively rude or mean to other players.If you do slip up and say something nasty to another player because of a bad beat or similar, make sure you apologize when you have cooled down.
18. Excessive bad language In some official poker tournaments they have rules for poker games that get you “time on the bench” for this.
Avoid it in home games, especially when you are in someone else’s home and women and children are present.
19. “Shutting-up-shop”This is when a player is a big winner and then decides to not play another hand so he can keep his winnings.
Definitely in the category of unwritten rules for poker games, some may even disagree with me on this one, but a player that has reloaded in a cash game does it on the idea that he can win some of his money back.
If you are going to do this then leave the game….. see rule number 15.
20. Be a good loserWe can’t win every session. Congratulate the winners and don’t complain…. There is all ways next time.
Knowing these rules for poker games is not about being a winning player, it is about being the kind of player that others don’t mind losing to.